July 8, 2012

Guidelines on Constructive Parenting Skills


Couples who employconstructive parenting skills make use of methodical approaches in modeling behaviors for their offspring.  Through such skills, self-esteem and self-worth are built up among children at their early years of development.  Constructive parenting should be initially established by the parents themselves.  By considering their own behavioral attitudes accordingly, they can anticipate children to follow them and act in like manner.  These skills require constancy, expertise, and readiness to gain knowledge—first for the parents and then the children.  As a result, this know-how parenting ends in higher competence.



There are three confirmed, easy-to-use constructive parenting skills these days which comprise of the following:

Role modeling – parents must mirror the very character and manners they want to look ahead to their sons and daughters.  Before they can guide them, parents must educate and direct themselves first about what are acceptable deeds.  As kids gain knowledge by listening and watching what adults do, parents need to be more cautious of their demonstrated actions, especially during unguarded moments.  The kind of personality your kids will become is reliant on how they are trained and modeled during their formative years. Display virtues of politeness, gentleness, benevolence, patience and you will create a well brought-up child.  On the contrary, model the behaviors of anger, fear, resentment, hatred and you will shape a ghastly child.

Training and disciplining – in practicing constructive parenting skills, couples may use a variety of ways to impose discipline.  One of the best forms of child discipline is by abiding acceptable behaviors through trainings and not just by giving punishments.  A genuine discipline is neither punishing nor overly correcting.  Proven effective discipline comes from daily working reasonable activities displayed by parents and copied by the kids.  It is shown most in practices and spoken least in annoying reprimands.


Effective Communication – based on the child’s age and ability, parents should employ correct procedures when communicating with them.  The way children take up words depends on how effective the message is.  Constructive parenting skills banish vague and puzzling messages by utilizing comprehensible and reliable information in an easy-to-understand mode.  Yelling is a must-avoid attitude since children don’t remember any good thing from it.  Your anger is the one they keep in mind, not what you want to teach.  Finger pointing, displaying akimbo, unpleasant facial expressions—these are non-verbal actions against any relationship.  Showing gentleness and speaking respectful words, will help yield rewarding results.

A parenthood stage is more of a great privilege than a life’s heavy burdens.  Get started by allowing yourself learn these three constructive parenting skills.  You can be the kind of parents your children can be very proud of! 


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22 Comments:

At July 18, 2012 at 5:50 AM , Anonymous The Mommist said...

True! Leadership by example is the best kind of training but also the hardest. Great post!

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At August 29, 2012 at 12:32 AM , Blogger Unknown said...

I am glad that I discovered your wonderful blog. It seems that this was a good example for the happy family and I want to congratulate them. We all know that being a good parent is the role model towards our children.

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At August 29, 2012 at 3:50 PM , Blogger Glenn S. said...

You are right there, Greg. What children turn to be is what they see from their parents. Children are just the replica of their own parents. Keep visiting and reading...

 
At October 6, 2012 at 7:51 AM , Anonymous Raising Kids said...

I'm beginning to like this blog. I started to bookmarked this...
I like the last part, " effective communication " that's the most important in parenting.

 
At May 5, 2016 at 9:04 AM , Blogger Unknown said...

Parents should practice the positive way of discipline while their kids are still at a young age. If they are guided properly, they will not have a difficult time when they become teenagers and later adults. ivemovedon

 
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At November 28, 2018 at 12:25 AM , Blogger Kate said...

Great post!

 
At November 28, 2018 at 6:11 AM , Blogger Kate said...

Thanks for sharing this informative post with us! Each skill which you've described is a must-have for a good parent. Still, how do you think, what makes a "good" parent? I'd like to recommended you reading this article http://www.agsinger.com/7-skills-of-responsible-parents-that-make-a-difference-for-the-child/ about 7 skills of responsible parents. I think that it's extremely important to set high standards for ourselves first and then our children second. We serve as a role model to them, don't you think so?

 
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